Help! I'm Becoming One of "Them"

With an engineering background and information technology industry experience, I have long considered myself to be self-sufficient in personal technologies. Until now.

About two years ago, I became an Apple customer -- after being an "IBM user" since 1984, when the first PC was announced by IBM. I did this to challenge myself (and because my teenage son was an Apple devotee).

Now, I have an iMac at work, an iPod at the gym, and an iPhone in my bag. None of them really came with a user manual. And I just do not find any of it intuitive. Where is the on/off switch for the iPod? How am I supposed to know that Time Machine is a backup tool? And the interface in iTunes makes no sense to me (and I have been syncing for years with a PDA).

Last night, my son and I were helping my mother with her iIssues. She wanted to move her audio book from her iPod to her iPhone. First we had to install iTunes on her new computer. Nope, that was the wrong version -- she needs the 64-bit version (who knew?). Done.

Next we File-Transfer Purchases so that her e-book is on the computer. Done. We synced her iPod. Done.

At this point, the Jets-Patriots game was getting down to the short strokes, so my son was checked out. I eject the iPod, connect the iPhone and click on its audio book tab and tell it to sync. Abort! Abort! Abort! Doing this operation will erase everything on the iPhone. Why? Because I didn't transfer purchases with the iPhone plugged in, so her apps didn't download. Argh.

Anyway, I had created about 80% of a blog with my BlogWriter app last week. It's no longer there. Where did it go? It is not in my blog. It's not in my drafts on the cloud. It's not on my phone. Double argh.

I must be getting old. Or overloaded. The rate of change in technology is faster than my rate of change in learning technology (we were talking about differential Calculus this morning, sorry). I just don't get it.